How to Deal With College Roommates
♫ Tuesday, April 20th, 2010New college students may be wondering what they can do to survive those years with roommates without losing their mind? Well, there are some great tips that you can use to deal with roommates and get through the experience relatively unscathed while retaining your sanity.
Tip #1 – Get Some Rules
Rules are important for college students that are rooming together. If you don’t set any rules in the beginning, the roommate will think that anything goes. Sit down and talk about the preferences that both of you have. Does one of you like getting up early in the morning or staying up late? Do you have to have quiet when doing homework? Do you prefer listening to the music turned all the way up? Find out about these things early and come up with some rules together. It makes living together a bit easier.
Tip #2 – Learn the Art of Compromise
Okay, so you may not feel like compromising. More than likely you are used to having your room your way. Well, get over that now. Compromise is the name of the game when you have a college roommate. Of course, you shouldn’t be the one giving in all the time. Both of you need to work together to compromise so you can come up with good solutions that you both can deal with.
Tip #3 – Talk to Each Other
Many roommates get frustrated and just hold things in. This is a mistake and will only cause more problems. If something is bothering you, talk to your roommate about it. The more you talk to each other, the more you can avoid conflict and annoying each other even more. Just be honest and save your battles for things that are really important. Complaining all the time isn’t going to get anything done for you.
Tip #4 – Respect Your Roommate and Their Property
When you have seen your roommate stagger in at 3am trashed on Sunday morning, it may be tough to have respect for them, but you need to respect them as well as their property. One big compliant that roommates have is their other roommate going through their stuff. Don’t do this. You don’t want them taking your things, so save a lot of big fights and just respect them and their property. You’ll be more likely to get through your first year of college without getting beat up that way.
